Sheila Heti has 27 responses into the concern of how many times you really need to do so. (Contains some explicit language.)
S peaking as somebody who has never ever had sex, who’s only learn about sex and watched it online, I would personally say never ever. It appears that there are plenty small repairs which will make in this falling-apart realm of ours, that to pass through some time degrading another person, or being degraded, is a really bad usage of some time. Whenever you can, i might advise the questioner: refrain.
To be able to keep a relationship that is healthy once weekly appears sufficient. As soon as a week appears healthier. I’m maybe perhaps not saying you ought to schedule it in — more straightforward to allow the heart or even the loins lead you as to whenever, about what right time, for just how long, in just what place, which space.